Do you want to learn how to use strap-on but are too embarrassed to ask your friends and co-workers about it? If yes, this article is for you. See, it is completely fine to be curious about sex toys like strap-ons. In fact, learning more about it can add more spice to your relationship and help you pleasure your partner better.
Unlike other vibrators that are pretty straightforward to use, a strap-on is a bit more challenging to get a groove of. Without help, you are going to feel awkward and super-self-conscious the first time you use it. To ensure that, you have an amazing experience while using it, we prepared some tips that will help you get the hang of how to use it. Before we dive right into that, we are first going to explore who strap-ons are made for.
Who can use a strap-on?
Trust me; it is easy to have mixed feelings about strap-ons especially if you have a personal belief or notion about it. But the truth is that strap-on isn’t designed to be used only by a certain group of people. Anyone can use a strap-on sex toy to pleasure their mates. Women (straight) can use it to penetrate their husbands or boyfriends. Sex experts refer to this as pegging. Trans and guy couples can use it to have penetrative sex. The bottom line here is that basically anyone, be it male or female, gay or straight can use strap-ons.
Tips on How to Use Strap-on
You may feel awkward
Just like many sex toys out there, you aren’t going to feel comfortable using them the first time you try them. This is true for strap-ons. The first time, you wear it, you may feel weird. This may be because of your gender or the position you are in your relationship. If you are a bottom or have been with men in the past, it is only natural to feel strange when you are a top.
Regardless of how you feel the first time you use a strap-on, you can be confident that you are going to get the hang of it and enjoy using it after a while.
Always use a condom
While a strap-on isn’t an actual penis, experts recommend using it with a condom, and for good reason. Using it with a condom makes it way easier for you to clean up after sex. Since condoms are usually lubricated, you can be confident of having a better experience.
Practice before the main event-learn how to use strap-on beforehand
If you are new to strap-ons, it is wise that you practice using them before your intimate time with your partner. Your goal should be to make yourself as comfortable as possible while wearing it. Ashley Cobb, a sex toy reviewer pointed out that an easy way to get used to wearing a strap-on is to wear it when engaging in non-sexual activities. So you can wear it while cleaning, watching TV and chilling. As you get more comfortable with it, it will become easier for you to use it with your partner.
Use your hands
Let’s face it, a strap-on is less easy to control than a real penis. At times, it may be difficult to use it to penetrate your partner properly. Don’t hesitate to use your hands to adjust them to your desired position when you need to.
Get feedback from your partner
Communication is key to having a great experience with your partner, especially when using a strap-on. Since you don’t have total control of the toy, it is important that you ask your partner how they feel and if they are comfortable using it. It is also important for your partner to tell you when you aren’t going too fast, too slow, or uncomfortable.
Final Note
Strap-on is an excellent addition to your sex toy collection, as it is fun to use and can help you pleasure your partner better. As mentioned above, you may experience a few bumps along the way when you start using it. Following the tips discussed in this article will help you scale through them.