When sexual needs aren’t met the relationship between couples may become strained. While no relationship is perfect, couples who have bedroom-related issues usually suffer the most. 

Having a clear communication channel with your partner will put you in a better position to narrow down and address these issues. The truth, as many couples come to realize is that the problem is with their partner. A lot of men worry about everything from how to please their partner better to how to satisfy their needs. There are many where one partner isn’t into the things the other partner is into. If you are in this boat, you may feel lost. This article is going to help you put things into perspective and provide the answers to some common bedroom-related questions asked by men. 

The first step to turning things around in your relationship is to accept your partner for who they are. Granted, there are going to be parts of them that you don’t like but you should learn to accept them for who they are. But you don’t have to keep bottling things up. As a man, you need to speak up and air your sexual concerns to your partner. 

Questions men ask when sexual needs aren’t met 

Why is it difficult for me to ejaculate when I have sex with my partner 

A lot of things couple be the cause of the issue. It could be that your sexual habits (masturbation and handjobs) have made your body and your brain develop some resistance. Well, the good news is that you can easily unlearn each of these habits. This, of course, is going to take time, energy, and patience. 

How can I become better at foreplay?

Many men suck at foreplay. This is why they often rush to penetration. 

To many men, this may not seem like an issue, but for women it is. Many women have complained to therapists and counselors that their partner isn’t great at foreplay. If you have this problem, you may have likely brainstormed ways to turn things around. 

Having a clear understanding of what foreplay is will help you become better at it. Foreplay isn’t overcomplicated as many men think. It is just about keeping a physical and emotional connection with your partner. 

One thing you should never forget is that foreplay is more exciting to women than penetration. So it is important to learn how to do it properly. 

Below are some tips that can improve your foreplay 

  • Make it the main event- This means that you shouldn’t it or skip it. 
  • Have fun- Many men struggle with foreplay because they think that it is rocket science. But that isn’t the case. When you make it seem like a fun activity, you are slowly going to start enjoying it. 

Should I end my marriage if my sexual needs aren’t met?

As a man, it is easy to become fed up with the attitude of your partner especially if she isn’t making much of an effort to address your sexual needs. In fact, you may even be considering ending your marriage. Before you make any big move, there are some questions you should give careful consideration to. Below are some of them. 

  •  Does my partner detest the things that turn me on?
  • Do I try to satisfy her needs after she has addressed my sexual need?
  • How do I react when my partner turns down my advances for a sex session? 

Final note 

There you have it some questions men whose sexual needs aren’t met ask. If you want to spice things up and keep things exciting you should consider using sex toys. And remember that, your bedroom issues aren’t going to disappear overnight.